There is a bad girl/bad boy in all of us that wants to go rogue.
Most of us are conditioned from early on to be people pleasing, achieving citizens. Doing the “right” thing. Going to the “right” school. Joining the “right” club, company, circle. Having the “right” job, address, car, whatever.
Whatever for?
I am going rogue!
What is your rogue?
Maybe not this rogue. But definitely rogue!
Over time, with the ongoing experiences of life, I’ve come to subscribe to the saying that:
Man plans.
God laughs.
What is the balance between responsible planning and going with the flow? What is responsible? What is not?
I am usually the good girl.(Well, the sailplane trip was a bit rogue…) But I generally did the “right” things. I planned. I saved. I gave. I trusted (hah!).
So it’s time to go rogue (again). Rogue to put myself first.
How many ways might my bad girl go rogue?
Travel Rogue!
Cancer Rogue!
Dance Rogue!
Drone Rogue!
Foodie Rogue!
Yoga Rogue!
Watch the Sunrise Rogue!
Balloon in Burma Rogue!
Antarctica Rogue!
Machu Picchu Rogue!
Galapagos Rogue!
Sleep In Rogue!
Aviation Rogue!
Veggie Rogue!
Meditation Rogue!
Get in Shape Again Rogue!
Hiker Rogue!
Walk the Beach Rogue!
Eat my way through Thailand Rogue!
Australian Open Rogue!
Soar New Zealand Rogue!
Live on a Greek island Rogue!
Three Star Michelin Restaurants Rogue!
Australia Rogue!
New Zealand Rogue!
Live on Santorini Rogue!
Spain Rogue!
Italy Rogue!
Maldives Rogue!
Safari Rogue!
Kayak Rogue!
Paddle board Rogue!
Spa Rogue!
Rogue! Rogue! Rogue!
I think this is my new favorite word du jour.
I am not going to accept cancer as a limitation.
I am not going to look back and say would have, could have, should have.
I am going to follow my wanderlust, my curiosity and have some fun.
I am going rogue!
What’s your version of rogue? What does your bad girl/boy yearn to do?
‘Fess up. We all want to go a bit rogue.
Tweet me your rogue! Or leave your rogue in the comment section below!
But in all seriousness, why should I have to “go rogue” to put fun and passion first in my life? That’s something we should all ponder.
What’s your rogue?
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What is #CancerRoadTrip and how did it come to be? Read this post to get the backstory!
What is #CancerRoadTrip and how did it come to be? Read this post to get the backstory!
What does one pack when you’re looking at an indefinite period of time traveling and locations and climates that vary enormously?
Travel packing takes some serious thought. Weight, bulk and practicality all come into play. Trying to figure out what I may need over the next 6-12 months on the road is challenging, particularly when I love everything from 3 star restaurants to (healthy) street food; from hiking boots to high heels; from purses to backpacks; from urban adventures to rural escapes.
There are two parts to packing for #CancerRoadTrip. In the first part, on the way to Vashon, I will have my car. And when I get back (at some future point), I will once again have access to my car. This gives me an opportunity to pack some light household goods. Last time I moved from the east coast to Tahoe, I learned a few things.
I learned that I like to have some of my favorite kitchen things. A food processor (a Cuisinart Mini-Prep will do the trick); some of my favorite silverware; a favorite pot or two. I like to cook, partly to be aware of my food sources, but mostly because I love to eat well. So my cooking accoutrements matter to me.
If I time my return to the States to coincide with winter, I can pack a suitcase of winter clothes in the car as well. My car is small, so I have to make careful choices. Quite honestly, I haven’t gotten this far yet, and I have no idea what may happen on the road!
But with an uncertain return date, I need to pack, now, today, with a flexible enough wardrobe to take me through everything shy of really cold.
Here are three outdoor/active items that made it to the #MustPack list this week*:
If I’m hiking, I need to carry a few things. This ultra light weight backpack holds a a lot of stuff and weights almost nothing. It also comes in a ton of colors. The material has a subtle design that is very attractive. I love it!
I’ll also be packing my walking sticks and my new Merrill low rise hiking boots. (The heavier clunkier Merrill boots that I love will go into storage for now.) A note on Merrill boots: I need to order one size larger. I normally wear a 9. The size 10 fits me perfectly.
Hiking and outdoor activity is a must. These White Sierra Women’s Sierra Point 31-Inch Inseam Convertible Pant are UV protected. The pants zip off mid thigh to become shorts. They’re rugged, easy to wash, quick to dry, and comfy. The zippers are rugged; great pockets. It fits a bit below the waist.
Traveling with cancer means staying hydrated. And I’m finicky about having pure water. Brita to the rescue. This is a 20 ounce, non BPA water bottle with a built in filter. Simple tap water becomes a healthy way of staying hydrated. It also provides clean water for tea or any other use. The filter works efficiently and quickly. I once had another similar bottle, and it was a disaster. Brita got it right with this product. It’s dishwasher safe. Brita Water Filter Bottle Replacement Filters are small and easy to pack.
Stay tuned as my Travel Retail Therapy series continues. Whether you’re going on a one week or one year journey, I think you’ll find some interesting insights. And I’ll let you know how it all pans out along the way!
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What is #CancerRoadTrip and how did it come to be? Read this post to get the backstory!
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Travel adventure can take many forms. What’s your preference?
Physical? Culinary? Historic?
Urban? Outdoors ? Beach?
Reading for a bit of vicarious adventure? (If so, follow me!)
For me, books are a form of adventure and my house exudes the theme. Everywhere I turn, I see some form of exploration, hopefully followed by a bit of real world mastery!
I have cookbooks from my travel adventures, cookbooks about the history of food, about what was “hot”at a point in time. Everything from Asian fusion (before anyone knew what it might be) to classic french techniques and meanderings by Escoffier and Ferdinand Point.
As I sort through my things and pack up the house, packing my books is perhaps the most daunting task. Each has a memory. Each has (or had) a purpose. Each was an adventure, often a travel adventure.
Some were gifts; some were chosen.
Some stay. Some go.
As a long time foodie, I lived to eat during that year I lived in New Orleans. There was actually a program that hired non-chefs as grunt restaurant labor while I was in town. The program rotated you though a series of popular, thought leading restaurants over a two year period. Had we stayed two years, I would have done that in a heartbeat. Forget the heat of the kitchen and the horrible hours! The New Orleans food scene was a mecca of creativity and a fusion of flavors that I reveled in. Culinary travel adventure!
The Commander’s Palace: New Orleans Cookbook, however, will go. This restaurant which served an incredible bread pudding souffle with a bourbon creme anglaise (1,000 glorious calories per bite!) created by a then unknown chef, Emeril Lagasse, holds memories, but these days I eat lightly. It can find a new home and inspire someone else on their culinary endeavors. As can much of my New Orleans cookbook collection. But the memories of the calories linger! I found this post with a picture of the breakfast version of the souffle. YUM!
Adventure in my library also appears in soulful ways. Don Miguel Ruiz, Baird T. Spalding, Bernie Siegel, Lama Surya Das, Chopra, Myss, John Kabat-Zinn, Eckhardt Tolle. Stay or go? I think this entire class of thought stays. This is soulful travel adventure, and it is part of me.
Travel books–which are sometimes part history– are actually a fairly small part of my library. I tend to go places, rather than read about them, and with the web, most of my research is electronic.
I came across Peter Mayle’s A Year In Provence series, one of my favorite travel adventure books. I love his wit and insights into French culture. I think they are a keep. They always make me laugh. In these books, Peter Mayle, an English copyrighter, decides that he must buy and renovate a house in the south of France! The inevitable English vs. French cultural differences and his insights are simply hysterical. I may need to download them in electronic format to take along on my travels.
Then there are the cartography books. Early Mapping of Southeast Asia, an amazing geographical and historical tour de force by rare book and map dealer Thomas Suarez. Thumbing through the pages, I find a four leaf clover that I’d pressed years ago. A good omen for a bit of travel adventure!
Aside from cartography books, a good portion of my library is about aviation and adventure. I bought North to the Orient by Anne Morrow Lindbergh because my father gave me her diaries as a child and I found them fascinating. Ditto for her poetry. She stays. A connection to the past that I want to keep.
West With The Night by Beryl Markham is one of my favorite travel adventure books, whether she actually wrote it or not (controversy abounds about Ms. Markham and all her exploits!). This is an epic adventure story of one woman/pilot who pushed all of society’s limits (and then some) while living in Africa. She was a contemporary of Isak Dinesen, the author of Out of Africa. IMO, this is one of the best adventure books ever written.
A brief excerpt:
Africa is mystic; it is wild; it is a sweltering inferno; it is a photographer’s paradise, a hunter’s Valhalla, an escapist’s Utopia. It is what you will and it withstands all interpretations. It is the last vestige of a dead world or the cradle of a shiny new one. To a lot of people, as to myself, it is just ‘home’. It is all these things but one thing-it is never dull.
Here, my favorite book of all time: The City and theStars by Arthur C. Clarke. This is more of a sci-fi travel adventure. It took me years to track this down and it’s one of the only books I do not lend out. It was written in the fifties and I’ve always considered it to be prescient.
It’s about two societies. In one, Diaspar, the people are immortal, born out of a computer. They live lives of art and leisure, banter and play. When it is time to retire from this life, they save their favorite memories and return to the computer that created them. In this manner, people are randomly recycled throughout the ages, keeping the mix of people constantly changing. They are, in their own way, immortal.
But they never leave the walls of their city. They have been conditioned with fearful tales that keep them confined in their “safe” world and culture.
The creators of this society, however, knew that some change had to occur. So they created the concept of a Unique, a person who had not been born before, who did not share the societal fear of venturing beyond the city walls. This was Alvin.
Alvin, of course, cannot be contained and he leaves the city to find another civilization, Lys. While Diaspar revels in beautiful but meaningless pastimes and pursuits, the people of Lys have cultivated their intellect and humanity. Needless to say, Alvin changes the course of both civilizations.
Did Clarke foresee the vapidness of a distracted consumer society unfolding as early as the nineteen fifties? (Now having said that, know that I have indulged in some wonderfully satisfying vapid retail therapy as I plan my packing for my upcoming trip.)
I think the reason this book sticks with me is (1) Alvin, the hero/protagonist/adventurer to whom I obviously relate; and (2) the prescient nature of Clarke’s observations on human nature. It’s an amazing book. Also available in Kindle format. If you decide to read, it please email me/comment and share your thoughts!
And for anyone looking for some soulful and even humorous looks at life with The Big C, check out our #CancerBookClub. We meet on line, every month, and explore the theme of cancer in literature, film and life.
#Gratitude
#Inspiration
#Kindness
#Adventure!
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What is #CancerRoadTrip and how did it come to be? Read this post to get the backstory!
What is #CancerRoadTrip and how did it come to be? Read this post to get the backstory!
Sold! Escrow opened today. I am 60 days to being #HomelessWithCancer.
Last night I totally freaked out. I mean, nearly total emotional decomposition.
I got on line and started looking for places to stay. It’s April, and much of Hawaii is already booked for the summer. It’s high season, which means lots of tourists and high costs. How am I going to handle this turn of events? Will I be able to find a place to stay? Where do I start? Which island when? Coordinating island hopping and travel with no lodging inventory is difficult at best.
Before, I couldn’t make plans until I had a closing date. Now that I have a closing date, there is little available. Getting a temporary place in Tahoe or elsewhere faces the same problems. Everyone wants to vacation during the summer. (Something I’ve never understood–I’ll take the off season weather and lack of crowds anywhere, anytime.)
A wrench in the works.
Friends to the rescue!
One of my old flying buddies and his wife are moving to Vashon near Seattle. They are selling their house in Nevada and renovating a house on the island. But they will be in Greece through the early summer. The Greek trip is something of a #CancerRoadTrip. It’s a celebration of their daughter’s graduation. The cancer connection is Jen’s mother. Her death underscored a sense of urgency about life experiences. Don’t put it off, do it now.
They could use a “construction manager” in Washington to oversee things.
It would give me a temporary base. I could explore Seattle and the various contacts I have up there. I could leave a few things somewhere, then take off perhaps towards the end of summer. This will give me the time I still need to get settled while unsettled.
“Not all who wander are lost.” JRR Tolkien
I enjoy the Pacific northwest during the summer. The winter rains are too much for me. But I’ve thought that having the Seattle area as a home base, and traveling a lot during the winter, could work. Living on one of the islands, with Seattle just a 20 minute ferry ride away might be a great combination. As long as I could escape the winter rains. And living on Vashon for a bit will allow me to test this out.
And Seattle has good health care. Something that is always part of the decision making process.
The decision making process of this entire adventure is an interesting one. How minimal do I want to go? Do I want to even own a house again? How much should I discard? Do I want to live in the States, or perhaps overseas for a while? One fantasy is a small place on a Greek island (with good internet access of course!) as a base. For as long as that lasts! What do I really want and need at this stage of my life? And what will happen with my health?
Questions abound. In travel I seek revelation. Or at least some insight. So, the itinerary is currently (but always open to change!) setting up as follows:
May: Huntsville, Alabama for the TBEX show. #TBEX is a networking event for travel bloggers, online travel journalists, new media content creators, travel brands and industry professionals. And Huntsville is Rocket City! Werner von Braun, “Failure is not an option”, and The Right Stuff come to mind. Somehow aviation always seems to creep into the agenda!
June: Close escrow. Vashon ho! Perhaps Vashon by way of California wine country. Maybe Oregon wine country too!
I loved living on the water in Connecticut. I’m looking forward to being near the coast again. And Chanel’s new humans may be passing through Seattle on an Alaskan cruise. If so, we’ll find a way to connect.
September-ish: Hawaii. R&R. A focus on health and healing. And a bit of adventure!
December: To Australia/NewZealand. I may plan a jaunt into Indonesia/Thailand to keep costs down.
The Australian Open is in January and Rob Kinas, a lawyer out of Las Vegas runs a group called CancerResearchRacquet. The group of international business professionals and tennis fans (and cancer survivors) travel the tennis circuit to socialize, play some tennis and raise money for cancer research. This year (2018 actually), I will join them in Australia. And who knows, maybe Wimbledon! We’ll see where in the world I am!
#CancerRoadTrip where nothing happens as expected! Welcome to life. Isn’t it grand?
Inspiration, joy & discovery through travel. Oh, did I mention with supposedly incurable cancer?
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